{"id":888,"date":"2014-01-21T10:47:19","date_gmt":"2014-01-21T09:47:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/?p=888"},"modified":"2014-01-21T10:47:38","modified_gmt":"2014-01-21T09:47:38","slug":"wisdom-from-rainer-maria-rilke","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/2014\/01\/wisdom-from-rainer-maria-rilke\/","title":{"rendered":"Wisdom from Rainer Maria Rilke"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Both from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/work\/quotes\/1208289-briefe-an-einen-jungen-dichter\"><em>Letter to a Young Poet<\/em><\/a>. I need to read this.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTherefore, dear Sir, love your solitude and try to sing out with the pain it causes you. For those who are near you are far away&#8230; and this shows that the space around you is beginning to grow vast&#8230;. be happy about your growth, in which of course you can&#8217;t take anyone with you, and be gentle with those who stay behind; be confident and calm in front of them and don&#8217;t torment them with your doubts and don&#8217;t frighten them with your faith or joy, which they wouldn&#8217;t be able to comprehend. Seek out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common with them, which doesn&#8217;t necessarily have to alter when you yourself change again and again; when you see them, love life in a form that is not your own and be indulgent toward those who are growing old, who are afraid of the aloneness that you trust&#8230;. and don&#8217;t expect any understanding; but believe in a love that is being stored up for you like an inheritance, and have faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that you can travel as far as you wish without having to step outside it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe point of marriage is not to create a quick commonality by tearing down all boundaries; on the contrary, a good marriage is one in which each partner appoints the other to be the guardian of his solitude, and thus they show each other the greatest possible trust. A merging of two people is an impossibility, and where it seems to exist, it is a hemming-in, a mutual consent that robs one party or both parties of their fullest freedom and development. But once the realization is accepted that even between the closest people infinite distances exist, a marvelous living side-by-side can grow up for them, if they succeed in loving the expanse between them, which gives them the possibility of always seeing each other as a whole and before an immense sky.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Both from Letter to a Young Poet. I need to read this. \u201cTherefore, dear Sir, love your solitude and try to sing out with the pain it causes you. For those who are near you are far away&#8230; and this shows that the space around you is beginning to grow vast&#8230;. be happy about your &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/2014\/01\/wisdom-from-rainer-maria-rilke\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Wisdom from Rainer Maria Rilke<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-888","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-discovery","category-on-my-mind"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/888","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=888"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/888\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":890,"href":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/888\/revisions\/890"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=888"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=888"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.joshlewis.org\/eddie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=888"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}